effin girlfriends

[Jamo]

We need the a new "Agony Aunt" section, Daisyfunky and Tronica can give us all advice on the opposite sex.

Dont' think their other halves would like that!

What a scary thought!

[Laurel]

We need the a new "Agony Aunt" section, Daisyfunky and Tronica can give us all advice on the opposite sex.

I should write a column "What you should know about women and cars"

[EspenW]

Kalle, you are doing the right thing. Once a cheat, always a cheat. They never change, unfortunately. Seen that a few times too many. On the bright side, you live in the country with arguably the most attractive female population on this planet. There are plenty of intelligent and attractive girls out there that can actually be trusted

[S2central.net]

Plenty more fish in the sea Kalle... As said already, this situation is bad but coulda been MUCH worse if you'd been fooled into unwittingly raising someone else's kid. Sometimes its easy to spot - I have a friend of a friend who knew this girl that tried that but the babby popped out with bright red hair and the absolute image of the real father.

IIWU - spend some quality time with your closest friends for a while, have fun playing the field - its Summertime (schawing) - and something better will just turn up - probably when you least expect it.

[Fat Audi 80]

Great post Paul Especially the Wayne's world quote.

[A80Avant]

Hehe No offence taken Kalle!

BUT when a woman is going to work in the summer in Greece....not a good idea.Summer time,nice weather,lots of drinks....i would have never left my woman go there,unless i was there myself for holiday whilst watching her every move.

My suggestion is....let her do what she wants,get into the S2 and have yourself a drive for a holiday in Greece!Treat yourself in anyway!I agree that 7-8 years even on and off is a long time,but these things are not forgive and forget for me,as i would never do it i expect my other half not to do it as well.It shows disrespect is the least i can say.If the relationship is dull or boring or routine,i would expect a fair well and then go screw anyone she likes.But not before as if 'i have my man tamed and if i feel horny or bored i can fool around,then come back to the jerk who really really loves me' kind of thinking...

Treat yourself my friend,drive safely and open your eyes around you.I bet there are lots of women who think differently.I would tell her to stay in Greece and finish up her work,not to bother coming back anyway.

Vasilis

[Jonas_R]

You can always take a trip to Denmark and get some cheap beer and liquer and get really drunk

[anton]

You can always take a trip to Denmark and get some cheap beer and liquer and get really drunk

thats a plan!! i may do that anyway

Ant

[rs2coupe]

She seriously didn't use protection with this other dude? That's scary Kalle... I feel your pain, cheating hurts the worst because of the betrayal. I just don't get why people just don't stay single if they want to sleep around. Keep your head up and enjoy the freedom

s2forum is therapy beyond automobiles... I love this place

[k.alle]

Oh dear, I cant believe the response this thread has produced.
And as you guys and girls might understand, i can't quote you all and answer you personally so my replies remain general.


And I know cheaters will always be cheaters, as I have done that myself and seen the damage it does.
I cheated in the beginning of the relationship when I was young and very foolish.
I'm 23 years old now and she's becoming 21, so I didn't now much about relationships when I was like 15-16 years old.
I'm not making excuses here, merely explaining myself.
She has also cheated before.

But, despite this we both matured as we got older and really got what it was all about, since then I have honored the don't-cheat-rule.
I think like I stated before that when one has cheated ones you'll always be a cheater,
because of this I have always avoided situations where cheating could be possible (much like sober alcoholics) and always declared myself as a boyfriend to some one else when approached by some one interested.


So, the cheating situ I could have managed, what comes around goes around as you say.
But it's the fact that I went to hell and back with this girl during the abortion period and suffered the flames of agony during that time that gets me.
I might have gone through all that because of some other guy boned my GF.
And even worse as you people say, I might have raised someone else kid.

We were in this relationship in complete trust with each other, so that's why I let her go to London and work in some bars and restaurants, and go to Greece for the summer to work at bars.
Today I have heard rumors of things she has said to others while here in Sweden, like "I'm going back to London because I have sort of a boyfriend there".

And that she on new years ewe was with that guy that I phoned earlier today and when his "after party" began it was obvious that they had shagged.
And they kept on mucking about all night.
During that same new years I was on the sofa squeeling in pain of some sort of "ichias syndrom" (don't know the english medicalterm), lower back pain with pain beaming down my legs.

So, please don't make me up as a saint because I'm not, I too have made my wrong steps years ago.

[volcano rs]

Oh dear, I cant believe the response this thread has produced.
And as you guys and girls might understand, i can't quote you all and answer you personally so my replies remain general.


And I know cheaters will always be cheaters, as I have done that myself and seen the damage it does.
I cheated in the beginning of the relationship when I was young and very foolish.
I'm 23 years old now and she's becoming 21, so I didn't now much about relationships when I was like 15-16 years old.
I'm not making excuses here, merely explaining myself.
She has also cheated before.

But, despite this we both matured as we got older and really got what it was all about, since then I have honored the don't-cheat-rule.
I think like I stated before that when one has cheated ones you'll always be a cheater,
because of this I have always avoided situations where cheating could be possible (much like sober alcoholics) and always declared myself as a boyfriend to some one else when approached by some one interested.


So, the cheating situ I could have managed, what comes around goes around as you say.
But it's the fact that I went to hell and back with this girl during the abortion period and suffered the flames of agony during that time that gets me.
I might have gone through all that because of some other guy boned my GF.
And even worse as you people say, I might have raised someone else kid.

We were in this relationship in complete trust with each other, so that's why I let her go to London and work in some bars and restaurants, and go to Greece for the summer to work at bars.
Today I have heard rumors of things she has said to others while here in Sweden, like "I'm going back to London because I have sort of a boyfriend there".

And that she on new years ewe was with that guy that I phoned earlier today and when his "after party" began it was obvious that they had shagged.
And they kept on mucking about all night.
During that same new years I was on the sofa squeeling in pain of some sort of "ichias syndrom" (don't know the english medicalterm), lower back pain with pain beaming down my legs.

So, please don't make me up as a saint because I'm not, I too have made my wrong steps years ago.

so what you complaining about ? what goes around comes around .

[k.alle]

so what you complaining about ? what goes around comes around .

Nothing except the abortion bit, as I said in the first post I don't need sympathy.
I just wanted to vent, get it in writing.

The last post was to clarify my background so no more assumptions was to be made, despite it might offend people.
Much like you got offended.

[volcano rs]

Nothing except the abortion bit, as I said in the first post I don't need sympathy.
I just wanted to vent, get it in writing.

The last post was to clarify my background so no more assumptions was to be made, despite it might offend people I'm honest.
Much like you got offended.

no not at all i'm not offended. i'm just saying if you have cheated on her and she has done the same what are you complaining about .i knew someone once who was paying maintenance for a child which wasen't even his .his girl was playing away and got pregnant and he always thought the child was his .
so count yourself lucky.

[k.alle]

no not at all i'm not offended. i'm just saying if you have cheated on her and she has done the same what are you complaining about .i knew someone once who was paying maintenance for a child which wasen't even his .his girl was playing away and got pregnant and he always thought the child was his .
so count yourself lucky.

I'm telling you, the cheating bit isn't whats offending me (i just have to take it, with right).

I don't know if you've been through an abortion process with all the pain that's involved in that, but that is what is bothering me.
Have I gone through all that with her because of some other guy nailed her.

And yes, I count myself lucky, I could have a child that I wouldn't be the father of.


Please understand, the act of cheating is not the issue here...
I'm just reliving that hospital room...

[volcano rs]

I'm telling you, the cheating bit isn't whats offending me (i just have to take it, with right).

I don't know if you've been through an abortion process with all the pain that's involved in that, but that is what is bothering me.
Have I gone through all that with her because of some other guy nailed her.

And yes, I count myself lucky, I could have a child that I wouldn't be the father of.


Please understand, the act of cheating is not the issue here...
I'm just reliving that hospital room...

i know what you mean .get rid of her for good