my friend drugged and raped!

[GT500]

Right fellas, I'm at my wits end. A very close friend went to the cricket on Friday. Rained off. She was with 11 blokes on a corporate table. I got a message to please come get me as I feel very strange. I got there in 20 mins. Found her, couldn't walk, struggling to speak. I knew she had been drugged. Got her home and spent the night taking care of her. Kicking myself I didn't ring an ambulance. I thought I had got to her before they could get her alone. But no. Sexually assaulted. By her bruises more than one attacker.
I don't know what to do. She won't let me call the police.
I have spoken to the bar manager and she is going through and will save the footage. Got to have been in the toilets.
I am shaking I'm so angry. What a world we have to live in! What cretin goes out with rohipnol to get what he desires?? A soon to be hospital food eating one?
Take care of your loved ones, this has happened. As much as I will try get her to cops its beyond wrong wrong wrong!

[rs2coupe]

Right fellas, I'm at my wits end. A very close friend went to the cricket on Friday. Rained off. She was with 11 blokes on a corporate table. I got a message to please come get me as I feel very strange. I got there in 20 mins. Found her, couldn't walk, struggling to speak. I knew she had been drugged. Got her home and spent the night taking care of her. Kicking myself I didn't ring an ambulance. I thought I had got to her before they could get her alone. But no. Sexually assaulted. By her bruises more than one attacker.
I don't know what to do. She won't let me call the police.
I have spoken to the bar manager and she is going through and will save the footage. Got to have been in the toilets.
I am shaking I'm so angry. What a world we have to live in! What cretin goes out with rohipnol to get what he desires?? A soon to be hospital food eating one?
Take care of your loved ones, this has happened. As much as I will try get her to cops its beyond wrong wrong wrong!

Oh my god

I'm very very sorry for your friend Rob... The terrible truth is these fekkers are getting more and more brave more so in public and with their friends. I'm sure they all have wives also, so it blows my mind how they can mistreat a woman in any manner at all. Back in the island the boys would of gathered find the creeps and teach them a listen never soon forgotten... Keep your witt and contact the authorities... Again soo sorry bro

[rs2coupe]

I also work bar so I recognize the kind very often..

[GT500]

Thanks Anton,
This is just the worst nightmare.
Spoken to the bar manager and she can see me on cctv collecting her. She is tracing all her movements through the afternoon. They have eyes on all of the premises.
Still shaking!

[speeding-g60]

heads would roll.....

[varia]

heads would roll.....

that the only way to handle this

[A80Avant]

How about taking her to the hospital. They would be able to examine, take samples and offer support. However I'm not sure if they would also be inclined to notify the police by default if she says she was assaulted to the doctors.

[s2driveruk]

thats terrible and nothing anyone can say wil make her experiences any less mentally and physically scarring.

I think unfortunately the only way to get some closure is to involve the Police. Hard but in reality living with it will be awful and those f***ers need to be brought before a court!

Hope she gets the support she needs - i think i was spiked on a night out a few years ago in London. Nothing sinister happened but that feeling was something i wont forget in a hurry...

[Rikki Kitto]

Your friend needs to decide how she wants to move forward but trying to convince her to get in touch with a rape crisis line would be a start, there is some sick fu**** up people around for sure and hopefully she will be brave enough to get them all nicked. Terrible state

[Rikki Kitto]

Try to preserve all her clothes too for forensics, hope you can convince her to involve the police, who's next

[gc77]

Myself and a group of friends witnessed and managed to stop the same thing a few years ago in Blackpool. Having been a witness to this vile behaviour I can only wish your friend all the best and hope that you can help her to make the decision to involve the police. I only hope that the bar can be of some assistance to you. If they can I am up the road if there is anything I can do to help you.

[martinws]

I'm really sorry to hear about this. It drives me mental thinking about if it happened to anyone I knew. I hope you get the police involved or at least get hold of whoever was responsible. Although naming and shaming could help stop them better than any beating. I really hope you get this sorted.

[Tonks4x4]

Rob also sorry to hear this its very wrong!
Phone the police and get someone there as quick as you can. She may not thank you for doing it now but will in the long haul.
Best wishes


Tonks4x4 - The Land Rover Specialist

[steverrquattro]

Rob also sorry to hear this its very wrong!
Phone the police and get someone there as quick as you can. She may not thank you for doing it now but will in the long haul.
Best wishes


Tonks4x4 - The Land Rover Specialist

Agreed. It's the only way.

You can not hide from these things as terrible as they are. Easy to say when it's not you, but the bigger picture here is that something has to be done, otherwise it just goes on and there will be another victim and then another.......

[AndyD]

Rob also sorry to hear this its very wrong!
Phone the police and get someone there as quick as you can. She may not thank you for doing it now but will in the long haul.
Best wishes


Tonks4x4 - The Land Rover Specialist

your friend will not thank you now but she needs help and to get some closure on her nightmare, if she does nothing then she will regret it for the rest of her life.

Please get her to go to the police and unfortunately the hospital as they need to run tests on her to ensure these scumbags didn't infect her with anything.

I am so sorry for both of you and the world we live in........